Mastery Your Emotional Intelligence

"Anyone can be angry. Anger is easy. But, angry at
the right people, with the appropriate levels, at which time
appropriate, for the right purpose, and in a good way,
is not easy. "- Aristotle, The Nicomachean Ethics.
Able to control emotions, people often underestimate the
on this issue. In fact, intelligence is not enough
deliver someone achieve success. Instead,
good emotional control becomes an important factor determining
success of one's life.

Emotional intelligence is a mental picture of
intelligent person in analyzing, planning and
solve problems, ranging from mild to
complex. With this intelligence, one can understand,
knew, and chose their qualities as human beings.

People who have the emotional intelligence to understand the
other well and make decisions wisely. More
than that, this intelligence is closely related to how
one can apply what he learned
of happiness, love and interact with
others.

He also knows his life purpose, and will be responsible
in everything that happens in life, as evidence
high emotional intelligence he had.

Emotional intelligence is more focused on achieving success
life that * does not appear *. Success can be achieved when
a person can make a deal with emotions,
feelings and interactions with others. Proven, achievement
material success does not guarantee satisfaction
anyone.

In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (also known as
called "EQ"), introduced through the world market. Expressed
that a person's ability to handle and use
emotions appropriately in any form of interaction is more
needed than intelligence (IQ) person.

Now, let's see, how emotions can alter
limitations become unusual ....

A rich millionaire in the United States, Donald Trump,
is a neat example of this. In the year 1980 until
1990, Trump is known as a real estate entrepreneur
quite successful, with an estimated personal wealth
for one billion U.S. dollars.

Two books were written at the height of successful careers, namely "The
Art of the Deal and Surviving at the Top ". But the way the
Trump route is not always smooth ...

Emal remember the depression that swept the world in the late
1990? At that time the property stock prices, too
dropped drastically. Until overnight,
Trump's life became very opposite.

Trump is highly dependent on the business of this property
must bear the debt of 900 million U.S. Dollar! Even
The World Bank is predicting bankruptcy. Some
friend who suffered a similar fate to think that this is
the end of their lives, to really end
his life by suicide.

Here the emotional intelligence Trump really tested. How
not, as he expected sympathy from his ex-wife, he
instead asked to provide all the remaining property as a
their divorce settlement. Those who considered
as a close friend had left her so
only. The reason is very supportive for Trump to break
discouraged and give up on life. But it was not done.

Trump considers that it is an opportunity to work
and changing circumstances. Although he has been financially
lost everything, but there are "intangible assets" that remain
owned. Yes, Trump has the experience and understanding
strong business, which is far more valuable than all the
treasure ever!

What happens next?

Fantastic, six months later, Trump has succeeded in making
the biggest deal in the history of business. Three years
Next, Trump could get a profit of U.S. $ 3
Billion. He also managed to rewrite the recent book
entitled "The Art of the Comeback".

In this book tells how the bankruptcy of Trump
who happened to make it wiser, stronger
and focus than ever before. Indeed, he thinks, if
Just unfortunate that does not happen, then he would never
know true friend and will not make it more
richer than before. Extraordinary is not it? :-)

Emotional Intelligence provides a determination to
rise from failure, also bring strength to
someone to stand up to fear.

Not any more than intelligence or IQ, intelligence
emotions present in every person and can be developed.

Here are some tips on how to sharpen intelligence
emotion:

1. Always live with courage.

Exercise and dare to try new things will give
diverse experiences and opening minds with a variety of
other possibilities in life.

2. Always responsible in all respects.

This will be a way to get the trust
others and to control us for no easy
surrender. "being accountable is being dependable"

3. Come out of your comfort zone.

Trying to get out of your comfort zone will make us able
exploring many things.

4. Recognizing the fear and try to deal with it.

Doing this will build confidence and
can be guaranteed that everything must be
solution.

5. Be humble.

Willing to admit mistakes in life can actually
improving our self-esteem.